As you see, there are several question marks in this tree, but I'm confident that Alma's mother Martha Campbell first married Jeremiah McConnell, and when he died in 1861/2, she married his brother Alpheus, bringing along her two children, Ira and Hannah. Alma was born in 1865 in Rawdon, Hastings, Ontario, and spent the first few years of her life there. Her father Alpheus was a farmer, and the family lived near a couple of his brothers and their families, and no doubt their lives were pretty ordinary for the times, with lots of hard work, church going and involvement in the wider community.
In 1873, when Alma was about 8 years old, her brother Wilbert was born, and sadly, this event brought about the death of their mother Martha. What happened immediately after that I don't know, but it wasn't long until everything went pear-shaped.
In 1874, Alpheus married Margaret Connelly, and then she was never seen again - in the family history sense. In 1878, some of the family (I don't know which members of it) moved to Michigan. Alpheus shows up there in the 1880 US census, a widower with just two of his five children - Maria, age 13, and Wilson age 10. By that time his eldest daughter Mary, and his two step-children had married - but where were Alma, age 15 and Wilbert, age 7? And what happened to Margaret? She had apparently died, but I can't find any record of that. Perhaps, after creating havoc in Alpheus' family, she ran off with someone else - but I'm only saying that because I don't like her.
|Alma McConnell at about age 16|
By the way, that 1880 US census is the last sighting of Alpheus. He probably died in Michigan, but I can't find any record of his death or burial, anywhere.
But getting back to Alma... as far as we know, Alma had no contact with any of her dispersed family while she was living with the Prestons. But she did get to know the Wanamakers, who lived nearby, and a few years later, when she was 22, she married William Henry Wanamaker. They soon moved to Kenlis, Saskatchewan and started having children.
Not long after that, in 1890 or 91, Alma was reunited with her youngest brother Wilbert. He was then 17 or 18 years old, and apparently not very happy with the situation he was in. So he found out where Alma was and went to Saskatchewan to be with her. Sadly for Wilbert, Alma wasn't entirely pleased to see him. By that time she had a couple of young children to look after, and I guess the last thing she needed was a dependent teenage brother who she didn't know. And I suspect that her husband, the fiery-tempered William, didn't want him around either. So Wilbert went to work on a neighbour's farm, and in later years, he was heard to say that he wished he had stayed in Ontario.
It wasn't until Alma was in her fifties that she reconnected with her sister Mary, who was living in California. The story goes that Alma had put an ad in some newspapers, seeking information about her missing siblings. Someone saw it and told Mary, who got in touch with Alma. In 1920, the sisters were reunited when William, Alma and their two youngest daughters went to California, and they kept in touch from that time on. Whether or not Alma found any of her other siblings or half-siblings, I don't know.
I'll have more to say about Alma and William and their family, which included my grandmother Myrtle Wanamaker, in future posts, but I'll leave them there for now.